Toddlers naturally enjoy helping and feel proud when they are given a “job.” When children do tasks at home they build independence, improve fine and gross motor skills and become better at listening and following directions.
Parents model chores every day. Your child may be curious and happy to lend a hand! Try translating preschool tasks into home tasks: put toys in bins or baskets; place dirty clothes in the hamper, wipe up counter spills and crumbs; carry things to the table; set the table. These small exercises build knowledge and confidence.
For some chores, parents can offer more hands-on guidance and encouragement. Examples might include help with feeding or brushing the family pet, or a kitchen chore such as chopping, mixing and measuring.
Teamwork tasks with siblings can help your child too. Tidying the house together and working in the yard are more enjoyable and easier with a group.
Our classrooms and playgrounds are learning labs where children are encouraged to try different chores and learn how to do things to help:
- Clearing items from tables after snacks and meals
- Watering plants
- Caring for classroom materials such as books, toys and games
- Sweeping playground areas
Child-sized tools make jobs easier; a small broom, rake or apron can make a nice gift too.
Remember to keep tasks simple and age-appropriate. Recognize effort—we are practicing and getting better every day! Early, positive helping experiences build lifelong skills with social and emotional dividends.
